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There are people in the world who are not only able to give, they are also able to receive, and as a result of this, they are not going to be accustomed to running on empty. On the other hand, there are people who going to be used to running on empty, and this is because they are unable to receive.

It then won't matter how much they give, and their life is likely to be harder than it needs to be. This is not to say other people will realise this though, as they might see them as model human beings.

Giving

When someone is seen as being a 'selfless', they are likely to be seen as living life in the right way. In this case, they are putting their needs to one side and they are focusing on the needs of others.

Now, if one was so consumed by their own needs that they were unable to be there for others, it is likely to be a sign that they are out of balance. That is unless they are going through a challenging period in their life, and this is stopping them from being able to be there for others.

Loss

For example, if one has lost someone they were close, they are not going to have as much energy as they usually do. And along with this, the pain of losing someone can cause them to retract from life.

The energy they do have will be used to take care of their own needs during this time. However, this is not going to be something that will last forever, and as time passes, it will be easier for them to be there for others.

Approval

However, although being there for others is seen as being better than being completely focused on one's own needs, they are both going to lead to problems. The ideal will be for one to be there for themselves and to be there for others.

If one can't truly be there for themselves, it is not going to be possible for them to truly be there for others. Their reason for being there for others is likely to be the result of their need for approval.

Self-Neglect

Therefore, they are not going to be there for others because they are 'selfless', they are going to be there to fulfil their own needs. But although their need for approval will end up being fulfilled, they are going to be neglecting their other needs.

Pleasing others could be what feels safe, and this means the reason they are not taking care of their other needs is because it could put their survival at risk. This is not to say that their life would end if they did put their needs first, but this can be how they see life at a deeper level.

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